We know how much love a pet can give to the family. Be it a cat, a parrot or a dog, there is a great emotional attachment. In case of dog, there is so much interaction in the family that when the time comes for the dog to move to the heavenly abode, the master’s family is invariably shattered. This feeling of devastated family can be best understood by another pet lover only.
Some scientists believe that the earliest wild dog originated in North America fifteen to thirty-five million years ago, long before any men lived there. No one really knows which animals were the ancestors of this first dog in the world. They think that he probably had a wolf father and a jackal mother. And the descendants of this puppy were the very first wild animals that primitive man ever tamed.
Pictures of the dog appear in the tombs of the ancient Egypt , in the ruins of Pompeii , in the tapestries of medieval France and England , on the pottery of American Indians."
This touching incident revolves around two characters : A famous man and his wonderful dog. He had dramatically poor relationships with his most family members. Yet, his dog was lucky to have such a sensitive and loving master. So much so, he wrote a will, on behalf of his much loved dog, so that when the dog is no more, his wife does not suffer a heart break!
The man was Eugene O’Neill. One of the greatest American playwrights, restless and bold experimenter, winner of the Nobel Prize for literature in 1936.
And the dog was Blemie.
Eugene O'Neill (1888 – 1953) was born in a Broadway Hotel ( what could be a better place for the birth of a playwright than Broadway, the Mecca of plays & theatres?). Ironically he died also in a hotel. Rare coincidence. In early days, I thought most people were born in their homes and died also there. Now a days, most of them are born in a hospital and also die there. But a hotel for birth and also death – very rare! We move ahead.
His marriage in 1909 lasted two years. After the failed marriage, he went to sea in 1910, living the life of a tramp at dock sides. Once he attempted suicide; & later was forced by the onset of tuberculosis to spend six months in a sanatorium. After recovering O'Neill began writing plays.
In 1918, O'Neill married Agnes Boulton, a successful writer . Over the next few years the couple had two children, a son and daughter. He continued to suffer from depression and his state of mind was not helped when his parents and elder brother, also an alcoholic, died within three years of one another (1920-1923).
O'Neill continued to have problems with alcohol. His one of the friends commented: "Gene was a periodic drinker, and once
started wouldn't stop - I guess he couldn't stop - until he was really sick. He
was the most trying morning-after drinker I've ever known. He would gloom up
and not say a word, or else talk of suicide, he was so disgusted with himself.
But when he stopped drinking, he would work around the clock. I never knew
anyone who had so much self-discipline."
O'Neill's health deteriorated during the
1930s. Suffering from alcoholism and Parkinson disease, O'Neill wrote little
during this period although in 1936 he won the Nobel Prize for Literature. His
poor health did not permit him to attend the award ceremony held in 1937.
O'Neill's tragic view of life was perpetuated in his
relationships with the three women he married--two of whom he divorced--and
with his three children. O'Neill had poor relationships with his children. He
disinherited his son Shane because he did not approve of his son's life style,
and also his daughter Oona because at the age of eighteen she married someone
who was her father’s age : 54 years old -36 years older to be precise!
Eugene O'Neill, Jr., his eldest son, from the first wife, suffered from
alcoholism, and committed suicide in 1950 at the age of 40, and the second son
Shane O'Neill, a heroin addict who also committed suicide. Oona was also an
alcoholic in the last years of her life.
O'Neill became gradually paralyzed and he died on
November 27, 1953 in Boston .
- If a person is to get the meaning of life he must learn to like the facts about himself – ugly as they may seem to his sentimental vanity – before he can learn the truth behind the facts. And the truth is never ugly.
- · The old – like children – talk to themselves, for they have reached that hopeless wisdom of experience which knows that though one were to cry it in the streets to multitudes, or whisper it in the kiss to one’s beloved, the only ears that can ever hear one’s secrets are one’s own.
- · I do not think you can write anything of value or understanding about the present. You can only write about life if it is far enough in the past. The present is too much mixed up with the superficial values, you can’t know which thing is important and which is not.
NOW MEET HIS DOG !
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In the early 1940s, this
famed playwright wrote a moving piece of prose about his dog, Silverdene Emblem
O'Neill (Blemie). In The Last Will and Testament of an Extremely
Distinguished Dog, O'Neill eloquently and compassionately articulates what
all dog owners feel as their pet nears the of its life. O'Neill elegy has been
lovingly published, as a cherished possession of innumerable pet lovers.
“The Last Will” says everything that needs to be said to someone
you love who is losing or has lost a beloved canine friend.
Here it is, reproduced verbatim, written so lovingly by Eugene O'Neill - habitually a serious playwright - on behalf of his Blemie and bought as a book by thousands of pet lovers. . It gives very touching emotions as we read what Blemie has to say - as words of consolation - as he prepares for his heavenly journey!
Last Will
and Testament
I, Silverdene Emblem
O'Neill (familiarly known to my family, friends and acquaintances
as Blemie), because the burden of my
years is heavy upon me, and I realize the end of my life is near,
do hereby bury my last will and
testament in the mind of my Master. He will not know it is there until I
am dead. Then, remembering me in his loneliness, he will suddenly know of this
testament, and I ask him then to inscribe it as a memorial to me.
I have little
in the way of material things to leave. Dogs are wiser than men. They do
not set great store upon things. They do not waste their time hoarding
property.
They
do not ruin their sleep worrying about objects they have, and to obtain
the objects they have not.
There is
nothing of value I have to bequeath except my love and my faith.
These I leave
to those who have loved me, to my Master and Mistress, who I know will
mourn me most, to Freeman who has been so good to me, to Cyn and Roy and
Willie and Naomi and - but if I should list all those who have loved me it
would force my Master to write a book.
Perhaps it is
in vain of me to boast when I am so near death, which returns all beasts and
vanities to dust, but I have always been an extremely lovable dog.
I ask my Master and Mistress to remember me always,
but not to grieve for me too long. In my life I have tried to be a comfort
to them in time of sorrow, and a reason for added joy in their
happiness.
It is
painful for me to think that even in death I should cause them pain. Let them
remember that while no dog has ever had a happier life (and this I owe to
their love and care for me), now that I have grown blind and deaf and
lame, and even my sense of smell fails me so that a rabbit could be right under
my nose and I might not know, my pride has sunk to a sick, bewildered
humiliation.
I feel life
is taunting me with having over lingered my welcome. It is time I said
good-by, before I become too sick a burden on myself and on those who
love me.
It will be
sorrow to leave them, but not a sorrow to die. Dogs do not fear death as men
do. We accept it as part of life, not as something alien and terrible
which destroys life. What may come after death, who knows? I would like to
believe with those of my fellow Dalmatians who are devout Mohammedans, that
there is a Paradise where one is always
young and full-bladdered;
here all the day one dillies and dallies with
an amorous multitude of houris, beautifully spotted; where jack-rabbits
that run fast but not too fast (like the houris) are as the sands of the
desert; where each blissful
hour is mealtime; where in long evenings there are a million fireplaces
with logs forever burning and one curls oneself up and blinks into the flames
and nods and dreams, remembering the old brave days on earth, and the love
of one's Master and Mistress.
I am afraid this is too much for even such a
dog as I am to expect. But peace, at least, is certain. Peace and long rest
for weary old heart and head and limbs, and eternal sleeps in the earth I
have loved so well. Perhaps, after all, this is best.
One last
request I earnestly make. I have heard my Mistress say, 'When Blemie dies we must never have another dog.
I love him so much I could never love another one.' Now I would ask her,
for love of me, to have another. It would be a poor tribute to my memory never
to have a dog again.
What I would like to feel is that, having once
had me in the family, now she cannot live without a dog! I have never had
a narrow jealous spirit. I have always held that most dogs are good (and one
cat, the black one I have permitted to share the living-room rug during
the evenings, whose affection I have tolerated in a kindly spirit, and in
rare sentimental moods, even reciprocated a trifle). Some dogs, of course, are
better than others. Dalmatians, naturally, as everyone knows, are best.
So I suggest a Dalmatian as my successor. He
can hardly be as well bred, or as well mannered or as distinguished and
handsome as I was in my prime. My Master and Mistress must not ask the
impossible. But he will do his best, I am sure, and even his inevitable defects
will help by
comparison to keep my memory green.
To him I bequeath my collar and leash and my
overcoat and raincoat, made to order in 1929 at Hermes in Paris .
He can never wear them with the distinction I did, walking around
the Place Vendome, or later along Park Avenue, all
eyes fixed on me in admiration; but again I am sure he will do his utmost
not to appear a mere gauche provincial dog.
Here on the ranch, he may prove
himself quite worthy of comparison, in some respects. He will, I presume,
come closer to jackrabbits than I have been able to in recent years. And,
for all his faults, I hereby wish him the happiness I know will be his in
my old home.
One last word of farewell, Dear Master and
Mistress. Whenever you visit my grave, say to yourselves with regret but
also with happiness in your hearts at the remembrance of my long happy
life with you: 'here lies one who loved us and whom we loved.' No matter how
deep my sleep I shall hear you, and not all the power of death can keep my
spirit from wagging a grateful tail.
Inspirering!
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